Since I've started wearing skirts and dresses more often on a daily basis, people have noticed and commented on it (always favorably). Sometimes I'm able to share my reasons for doing so. Here they are:
It's a reflection of what's going on inside of me. A few years ago, during a spiritual and emotional low-point in my life, I didn't take care of my appearance at all. I was not happy inside and I'm sure my appearance showed it. Deliberately taking the time to look nice now is a way to outwardly show the "hope that is within me."
It blesses my parents. And, in future, I expect it will bless my husband. For instance, today I am wearing a brightly colored floral skirt with a simple white top. When my dad came home for lunch, he commented several times on how nice I looked. My mom also notices and appreciates when I take the time to make myself look feminine. It reflects well on them to other people who may see me.
It reminds me to be more feminine. Wearing skirts or dresses is a constant reminder to behave in a more ladylike fashion. I simply feel more feminine and thus my actions reflect that!
It's fun! I don't think I ever outgrew the impulse to play "dress up." It certainly is fun to wear lovely clothes!
(Note: I don't think that exclusively wearing skirts or dresses necessarily makes you feminine -- femininity begins in the heart. For a treasure trove of worthy articles that address this issue, please visit Ladies Against Feminism's section on Femininity & Modesty.)Labels: thoughts
3 Comments:
What a great post :) I definitely appreciate other ladies that make an effort to show their femininity in dress!
blessings,
Lauren
You've put that so well. Those are my thoughts exactly...except that I couldn't have put them down so nicely!
This was great. Thank you for sharing. God Bless, Lynn.
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